In continuation to "how the person you like will treat you" post

In relation to the "how would the person you like will treat you" post... ....

This morning, my colleague and me were talking about something and she started sharing that she had a friend whose friends who are very nice/good and chatting.... the next moment, they will be like "totally shut off" and no news from them. When I heard this, I was like.... speechless!

The reason being, I can relate to this totally!

And we do agree, sometimes it may/may not be due to us that the person reacts that/this way. Maybe the person is trying to sort out something on his own, kinda need some timeout. But sometimes it is such "total silence" that makes us wonder what is going on..... whether is it because of us that the person reacts that way, did I do something wrong, etc and the person wondering/asking what is wrong, she may get frustrated when she doesn't know what is going on or when he doesn't want to tell?

And when he has sorted out his thoughts or has "recovered", the gal starts to be frustrated with him.

Hmm... this reminded me that someone was once asking "Guys don't want to talk because he has something in his mind." but when gals don't want to talk? I think one of the reasons is because "Guy don't want to talk and when you guys decided to talk or has recovered from whatever has been keeping you silence, the gals has gotten frustrated and decides to stop talking too."

Hmm..... well, some things that we just don't understand. Is it just so difficult to say,

"I am sorting some things out and I wish to be alone for a while?"

And we wondered, why can't people be more simple? And often than not, we seems to be able to "read" alot of people's mind, except people closed to us. Reason being, sometimes we just think too much, too complicated.

Oh well, that's life... ....