Other point of views.... makes me reflect

Sometimes I think when we are too engrossed in our own thought processes, we tends to forget what other people may think and feel.

In a conversation with a colleague, she was just chatting that some of her friends will message her and ask her "How are you?", "How's your day?" and maybe "Let's hang out.". She said she does like/love her friends but sometimes it is the same old thing. Sometimes, it is hard to explain even if she doesn't feel good or doesn't wants to go out. So, sometimes she will not want to explain, because she just don't know how. And sometimes, she just want to stay at home and rest, having time for herself.

This makes me think. How sometimes I will message people who are important to me and ask them how is their day. And their reply is usually "normal". I know sometimes it can be very irritating for them. Perhaps there might be other way to express my care and concern. Maybe I should just cut down on that.

Life goes on.....