Andy Lau may cancel his wedding?

Sometimes it is kinda weird how others can affect a couple in relationship or going into a relationship. In the yahoo news, Andy Lau may cancel his wedding due to "the constant pursuit of the media on this matter."

See?

I think it not only happens to public figure but ordinary people as well. Have you see guys/gals not getting out of a new relationship because their ex-es said that they will sure breakup? Or how often have you seen someone changing plans because of some "nagging" or constant pursuit of others who are not even involved in the story?

I even see cases where the guy/gal not getting into a new relationship just because their Ex-es were saying that she/he will agreed or give blessing if he/she is going to start a new relationship. He/she just don't want his/her "prophecy" to come true. Laugh. I don't see how and why the Ex needs to agree to the relationship or give blessing. Unless he/she is a priest/priestess..... if not, I don't see how his/her blessing will work. Hmm... maybe there is really a need to be "blessed" by the Ex.... never been in relationship.... don't talk about having Ex. Haha... In the hope to find the ONLY one.... so there will be no other one and no EX.... it may sound naive or unachieveable.... but.. who knows? In any way, it takes both parties to work/nuture the relationship.

If someone can be easily affected by some words or comments made by other parties, I guess abit of work has to be done.