God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way. And ME to share all the pain, laughter, tears, sorrow,happiness, sun and rain with you! Let us endure all the 暴风雨 and 彩虹 together!

Wednesday, June 22, 2005

Love is strange... irony.... or is it the people?

There are 3 groups of people:

The 1st group of people are those who keep on changing their partners because they keep on looking for the better half.

The 2nd group of people are those who wait for the better half to appear.

and the 3rd?
The 3rd group of people of course are those who either stick to their partners or those who give up on relationships.




Below is the possible outcome of the 3 grps of people....
ready??

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The 1st group of people.......

Have you all ever wonder that no matter how many partners you find, there will always be someone better.... in that case... are you going to keep changing even if you are 60 years old??
Love is not finding your perfect one... no one is perfect in thw world....
Everybody makes mistakes... that's why pencil has an eraser.
Beauty lies in the eye of the beholder..... Love comes when an inperfect person becomes perfect..... when stregths and love cover all the weaknesses.....
in that case... is there still a more perfect person??


As for the 2nd group of people.... read this analogy....

When the bus come, you look at it and you said to yourself, "eeee... so full...cannot sit down one". So you said to yourself, "I'll wait for the next one." so you let the bus go and waited for the second bus.

Then the second bus came, you looked at it and you said, "eeee...this bus so old...surely very uncomfortable one." So you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.

After a while, another bus came. It's not crowded and not old but you said, "eeee... no air-con one...and the weather is so warm, better wait for the next one." So again you let the bus go and decided to wait for the next bus.

Then the sky started to get dark as it is getting late.

You panicked and jump on to the next on coming bus. It is not until much later that you found out that you had boarded on to the wrong bus! So you wasted your time and money waiting for what you want!

Even if an aircon bus came, can you ensure that the aircon bus won't break down or will the aircon be too cold for you?

But wait...I am sure all of you have this experienced before. You saw a bus is coming (the bus you want of course) you flagged it and the driver acted blur by pretending not seeing you and zoomed pass you!
The bottom line of being loved is like waiting for a bus and whether you want to get on the bus and give the bus a chance depends totally on you and walking alone is just like being out of love.

And if you con't to wait for the perfect one... this may happens.....



And for the 3rd grp.....

either they live happily after or.... they stay single.....
Or well.... Find someone of the same gender......

That's life..... but some advises for all... regardless which group you falls into...

If you love someone set him/her free. If he/she comes back to you, you know they're yours. If they don't then it was never meant to be.

Remember to always say what you mean. If you love someone, tell. Don't be afraid to express yourself. Reach out and tell someone what they mean to you. Because when you decide that it is the right time, it might be too late.

Seize the day. Never have regrets.

And most importantly, stay close to your friends and family, for they have helped make you the person that you are today.

Pass this along to your friends. It could make a difference.

The difference between doing all that you can or having regrets which may stay with you forever.

Friendship is never an accident. It is always the result of high intentions, sincere effort, intelligent direction and skillful execution. It represents the wise choice of many alternatives.

And remember.... Keep Smiling....coz... "Of All Things You Wear, Your Smile Is As love returns to me, As I return to you, As love returns to us.

Hope this is really wondeful and make a lot of sense.
Have a nice day...

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