A place where behind the clouds, the sun is shining.....
A place where I share my reflections, dreams, hopes, life, frustrations.....
Saturday, January 31, 2009
Joy and Happiness
It has been proven to be so. =)
He is none other than ...............
(hmm.... why is so many people interested in knowing who I love? lolx....)
Friday, January 30, 2009
Xin.sg: Andy Lau will not allow himself to die a lonely old man
I heard this news from colleagues just now and decided to take a look. Andy is still as dashing as ever even though he is turning 48 years old. Some guys are just becoming more charming as they ages and mature. Maybe that is also why I prefer older guys than younger ones as they are more mature in their thinking.For more information on this news article, click here.
Nevertheless, I do agree with what was concluded in the article:
Andy: " I think romanticism is not about doing something, but being together with someone I love and waking up to see her everyday."
Happy 7th Month Anniversary my LOVE!!!
Who is my LOVE?? Make a guess??
Do stay tune for the picture on 30th Jan! =P
Okay.... my LOVE pic can be found here.
Please do not puke! lolx....
2nd Day of CNY
Anyway, in the evening, mom came to me and asked if I can accompany her to Loyang Dua Pek Gong. Since I'm too bored and moody, maybe a trip out will be good for me. When I reached there, it reminded me of the 4-faced buddhas when Alvin and me saw in Bangkok. I still remembered Alvin was saying that the buddhas are very accurate in granting the wishes of the worshippers but they have to pay back if their wishes are granted. If not, the buddhas will take back twice what was granted to them. Fear of losing what I was going to wish for if I couldn't go back and return the help, I decided not to go into the 4-face buddhas temple in Bangkok.
Anyway, I took some photos while I was at Loyang Dua Pek Gong:
I think I'm more interested in taking photos of the animals than the people:
The 12 zodiac signs:

The God of Wealth:
And I also helped my mum to take photo near some yuanbao:
3 copper coins that symbolizes excel in studies, good health and whatever you wish for will come true:
The BIG OX near the main road:
Another coin which symbolizes good luck for those in business and I managed to throw the coin through the centre and hit the bell for the first try! Too bad I am not a business woman.... lolx....
In any way, I wished for good health for my family and closed ones. May things be smooth sailing for all.
Thursday, January 29, 2009
Date of Birth
You are smart, straight talking, funny, stubborn, hardworking, honest, jealous on competing basis, kind hearted, angry, friendly, authorities, famous person...always want to be and regarded as first on people position, they are often like to be independent, will never be under others, self confident people!
You are most likely to fall in love in the younger age, but will get marry when you mature! You are likely to have problems with people who have opposite views. And you are most likely to take revenge over your enemies in a long time basis. You are a spender, but you will have a good profession in the future. If you are guy you will be very popular that everybody will have mental attraction and respect at you. You can go anywhere from the local shop to the heart of the parliament because you are positive and well talented in numerous issues!! But in your life you will always have some people who will work hard to bring you & your name down. This is undercover!! Coz of your smart behavior you will be hated by some people too...
Your family life is very cool, you will have a very nice partner & wonderful children... You are pioneer, independent & original...
LOL..... It says I will take revenge over my enemies in a long time basis!!! Don't know true or not..... So u all better don't become my enemies!!! TRY IF YOU DARE!!! lolx.... And I also believe there are some people trying to bring me down..... but who cares.....
Anyway, it says my best match has date of birth falls on the 4th, 13th, 22nd or 31st of the month!!
3D Sex Movie?
HONG KONG (AFP) - - A Hong Kong filmmaker aims to lure audiences back to the cinema with what what he says is the world's first 3D erotic movie, according to a newspaper report.
Stephen Shiu Jnr., chairman of One Dollar Production, said he would use special effects to make the love scenes in his 30 million-Hong Kong dollar (four million US) "3D Sex and Zen" as realistic as possible.
The 3D erotica will probably be the world's first," he told the Sunday Morning Post."Just imagine that you'll be watching it as if you were sitting beside the bed."
The film is based loosely on the 17th century Chinese erotic classic "The Carnal Prayer Mat," a tale about how overindulgence in pleasure can lead to tragedy.
Shiu told the newspaper that about 25 to 30 percent of the movie would be love scenes, including many close-ups. He said the actresses would appear to be only a few centimentres (inches) from the viewers, who would have to wear special glasses to enjoy the 3D effects.
The producer said he was planning to use adult video actresses from Japan and Taiwan. But he admitted having difficulties in finding the male lead.
"We're having trouble finding a male lead who is willing to undress in front of the camera. It's a lot more difficult to find an actor than an actress for this kind of movie."
Shooting will begin in April and it is expected to be released in time for Christmas, the report said.
Hong Kong has seen the closure of many cinemas in recent years as traditional movie-goers switch to watching films on DVD at home.
Hmm..... I don't know how it would like to be watching a 3D Sex movie. Never watch a SEX MOVIE in cinema before. I cannot imagine seeing the actress appearing to be just few centimeters away. I think such movies maybe the guys will enjoy more than the ladies. lolx.....
What do you think? Would you go and watch in the cinema if it is going to be screened in Singapore?
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
大喜事(The Wedding Game)
Anyway, Christopher and Fann has always been my idols since my primay/secondary school time, especially when they acted in 新阿郎. And when I was googling using the theme song: 别让情两难, I saw the theme song that they always play at the start of the drama!
Anyway, my colleagues left first as I still had to see clients till 6pm. They went to had dinner@Aijisan and asked if I wanted to order anything. As usual, I like my food to be spicy, I asked them to help me order something spicy. I took a fast walk to Tampines Mall as I just missed the bus@ the bus stop. By the time I collected the tickets, my food was already on the table for some time and it had "grown". Don't know if the food is too spicy or whether the noodles has incorporated too much air after leaving for some time untouch, my stomach was little upset and went to the ladies. Luckily I managed to catch the movie on time as it was 10 minutes after the start of the commercials.
Anyway the trailer is:
If you didn't know, most of the time, other than enjoying myself and looking at the plot, I usually do quite alot of deep thinking during the movie and reflect on myself or people or society around me.
Anyway, some scenes that left me a great impact (either it was super funny, irritating, disgusting or intriguiting) and those in yellow are my comments:
BELOW CONTAINED CERTAIN PERCENTAGE OF SPOILERS. DO NOT CONTINUE IF YOU WANT TO WATCH IT FOR YOURSELF, ELSE CARRY ON.
Christopher to Fann when Fann forget to lock the toilet door when she was erm... shitting:
WTH..... whose shit smells nice you tell me? lolx....
And there was a scene where Christopher hang up all the Fann's soft toys by the head and rip off the head of another Lion soft toy. She was so angry that she wrestled Christopher on the bed.
IF I AM FANN, I WILL RIP OFF THE GUY'S HEAD! lolx.....
There was a scene where Christopher's house was flooding as the water pipe burst, Fann Wong actually helped him off the tap and to squeeze dry the things that gotten wet. And before that happened, Fann actually "followed" Christopher when he went to buy food and send it to some elderly. This is when they realized that when people actually "let down" their "masks", they are comfortable just being themselves.
Chistopher mentioned:
"I like acting but when camera is not rolling, I don't like to act."
This is so true. How many a times are our lives or people around us putting up masks, either to protect ourselves from being hurt, to prevent others from knowing our weakness and/or strengths or even to get what we want? But when we let off this mask, it shows our sincerity and the true and real us. I believe not all of us are bad. Like in "Live well, love much laugh often", there is always a child in us. Just like when our favourite soccer team scored a goal, without thinking, we will shout "GOAL!" Like a child, we put on no mask, maybe that is why a child is always so innocence. But then again, nowadays kids also learnt to tell lies at a much younger age.
Fann's Dad to Christopher and Fann:
"Both of you promise me something. That is no matter what, never lie to each other. This will grant you happiness."
I guess the learning point here is to be truthful to each other in a relationship/marriage. The more you try to hide the truth, the more hurting it will be for the other party or when the other party finds out the truth themselves, even though you meant no ill intention to hide it. Being truthful also allows both parties to build trust with each other which is very important in the start or rather in the whole relationship.
Fann was saying something to the media:
Well, I guess it got to do with trust. When people first trusted you that whatever you said was the truth and when they felt that you have betrayed that trust, they may/do not believe you when you said the truth. Hmm.... isn't that similar to the boy who cried wolf?
Christopher was thinking silently when Fann Wong was telling the audience that they had been lying to them and the wedding was going to be a hoax :
I guess it all comes to when a person started with a lie and afraid that this lie is being exposed, tells another lie and leading to lies after lies, which he/she has no intention of doing but is afraid that other/s will not believe him/her. Thus he/she is struggling whether to tell the truth or not. But is when he/she realised that he/she will lose him/her forever if he/she don't tell the truth.
It was only when Fann left, he felt that she is what completes him. He felt so lost and empty without her. He went to many places that they had been to but cannot find her... ...
Want to know more? Watch it yourself!
I'm totally in LOVE with this MV of the movie:
This is another movie that left tears in my eyes... ... not only left... even rolled down.....
Hmm.... I think it is worth 4/5 if you asked me. =)
Man U vs West Bromwich Albion
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Horoscope for People who are born in the Year of Goat
The photo is taken from my HP. Will upload more photos and more horoscope when I have the time.
This horoscope reading is for those who are born in the Year of Goat. People that I know of are Alvin and Juat. Any more?
Monday, January 26, 2009
Happy NIU (牛) Year

Well, to be frank, this is just another day to me. Nothing special. And I wasn't in the mood for CNY too. Don't ask me why, I don't wish to share. And of course when new year comes, relatives will continue to ask without fail, questions like, "where is your boyfriend?", "got boyfriend not?" and "when you going to get marry?" Well.... as if I know how and what to answer. And I'm tired to answer them and not in the mood too.
This afternoon, I just went to my 2nd aunty's house and had lunch and stay and rot and watch TV. Fall asleep while watching 食神. Don't know how many times this movie has been repeated on the TV already. Just had some lunch at aunty's house. The usual - Steamboat. And I skipped dinner at her house as I'm still quite full because of the lunch and does not have appetite to eat.
Now, back at home. I'm so bored!!! Maybe I'll find some food to snack soon. Anyway, when I'm down, I'll either cook, eat, cry, sleep, listen to songs (and get myself more emo...), go for a RUN or I'll take photo!
This photos are taken from my laptop webcam
Some photos taken from my G900.These are the few songs by the way:
- 掌心
- 听海
- 担心
- 屋顶
掌心
听海
担心
屋顶
While keeping some angpaos into my drawers, I saw this:
Friday, January 23, 2009
Health Screening Report
May you die in peace
After lunch, some of my colleagues went to help to dispose off the body.
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Love and Cultural Difference
In their society, they have to sort of go through some match-making and might only seen their partner for like 1-2 times, some even only saw the photos and they are married for life.
Thus, I still glad that I am blessed to be able to be in this society to love and eventually get married in my freewill. =)
This afternoon, I saw a colleague's wedding photos and on one of the pages, it has written:
How apt.
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Relationships
She said:
"God didn't give us "the one". He gives us "the wisdom" to choose who to be "the one". How can GOD give you the 1 from out of don't know how many billion of people? And what if your "the one" is already someone else wife/husband? That means that someone else husband/wife maybe be married to other people's "the one" (if you get what I mean?). Thus, it is for us to choose our own "the one" instead of saying "God has the one for me". "
In the same conversation, it leads to me realising that I and another colleague have the attraction to the same type of guys:
"Someone who is cool, witty, knowledgeable and charming(I don't mean handsome here but rather some x-factor or charisma). Abit of those bad boys type of character. When they are warm, they can be very warm-hearted. But when they are cold. they can be very cold. Sometimes when they are trying to understand something or working on something, they tends to internalize them and get withdrawn (which may not be related to us, maybe because of work, studies,etc) and they do not want to communicate/explain it out. He wants to find out the solutions and answer on his own and does not want help from others. But when they want to say, they will tell you what is wrong, even without you asking. And this type of guys can be alittle "emotional unstable"... as if they have mood swing or PMS.... These guys tends to think deep and is often quite faithful when they really love someone."
Haha.... both of us just laughed at it when we were describing this type of guy. And as we were taking turns to describe this type of guys... I was like.... " totally agree with you!" and she agrees too. As both of us are communicators, we were puzzled why we like this type of guys. We were saying we were alright if sometimes or once in a while the guy is into his withdrawn world and does not want to tell us what is happening as we respect that he has his own personal space. But on the other hand, when we care and love someone, at the end of the day (please do not take it literally) we would want to know what is going on, even when it is not related to us or whether we can help or not. Thus, sometimes it can drive us crazy when we don't know what is wrong. It is not something subjective but rather something objective. We just want to know what has happened.
But nevertheless, it makes me ponder on what I really want. =)
*Edited*
Of course I still want the one who had swept me off my feet without me realizing it, with his words and actions and the same one who I sat my first 360 degrees roller coaster rides with... ...
... though sometimes u can be little bad-tempered, driving people crazy, "bo chap" and "attitude".... But there is still the other side of you that others may not have seen!
You are WHO you ARE!
=)
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
I LOVE MY HAIR... ...
Lolx.... I'm glad I've made the changes. Everyone, my colleagues and even caregivers of my clients(kids) said I look good in my new hair!!!! =D And when I went to work on Monday, my colleagues were like taking turns to touch my hair!!! lolx....
My mom said so too the day after I rebonded and highlighted my hair:
And I "attitude" by saying:
lolx....
Monday, January 19, 2009
Asher's baby shower + reflection
Anyway, Asher is so cute and BIG. =X (cannot say in front of the child... shhss...)
Some pictures taken on Sunday:
My backview by aZ
(I begin to like my backview! lolx)
Two guys who REFUSED to stand up or take photo
(WHADEVA?!?!)
Finally a picture is taken....
(but with the guys sitting and me standing??)
aZ... please only take my right side
With the night view
The gang that still survives since 2001?
Some photoshop-ped that I did:
I like this picture a lot.
It just reflected the thoughts and emotions that I am feeling.
守义, 好想你。。。 。。。
Anyway, heard this in 心花朵朵开2 this evening:
Sunday, January 18, 2009
No pants in the train???
And I guess GUYS benefit the most here, with nothing to lose....
Another change... ...
I am LOVING myself and going to PAMPER myself. No point being NICE to others when they don't even appreciate it. I am just going to appreciate myself for all that I've done for people who I've cared! And of course.... Thanks to those who appreciates me! =D
Shall post up my new look soon....
These are some photos that I've taken when I was using the 2nd Storey Ladies@Century Square.....
City Alive 2009
Anyone interest in the above event?The ticket cost is as follows:
- $15 (PAssion card holders)
- $20 (others)
- $28 (at door sale)
On the other hand, if you want to attend but don't want to pay, you might want to consider volunteering for this event as crowd control, logistic/operation or program side. But the deadline of submission is TML!!! lolx.... but do leave a comment if you are interested in volunteering.
Thanks!
I might be there volunteering.... lolx..... see-ya.....
Man U vs Bolton Wanderers


VS
1 - 0
But anyway, Berbatov scored a goal at the 89th minute!!!

Coolz man him... he has been scoring quite a few goals recently...... began to like him other than the Asian Park Ji-Sung.
And the win in this match has put Man-U 1st in the league table!!!! =D
Saturday, January 17, 2009
Weird People
To some, others don't understand him/her is their problem, not his/hers.
Maybe, some things are better left unsaid or explain.
Weird People are weird people... ... just let them be... ... when they have organised their thoughts, they will come out of the cave/shell..... if not.... just let them be CAVEMAN or TURTLE....
世界变了吗?
可是有时,
请问世界变了吗?
难道这就是人心的虚伪?
Friday, January 16, 2009
What's my word?
Your Word is "Hope" |
![]() You see life as an opportunity for learning, growth, and bringing out the best in others. No matter how bad things get, you always have at least a glimmer of optimism. You are accepting and forgiving. You encourage those who have wronged you to turn over a new leaf. And while there is a lot of ugliness in the world, you believe that almost no one is beyond redemption. |





